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Tuesday, June 03, 2008
My Final Reflection On Paparazzi
So as I end my research on paparazzi interfering with the life of celebs, I learned a lot about them.Well, I come to a conclusion that paparazzi can be bad people but they also can be helpful and useful people. They can be bad people because they go way to deep into celebs personal lives. Paparazzi can get embarrassing things from celebs like nights at the club and bar, or like pictures that celebs wouldn't like to be in the magazines. There can be pictures that paparazzi take are kind of horrible to show off to the world. Like for example, when paparazzi took a picture of Paris Hilton coming out of the car and paparazzi took a picture of something way to embarrassing and horrible. Paparazzi can also be helpful and useful to the world like getting good pictures of celebs with there married couple and kids. Also pictures like celebs new born babies or celebs that are pregnant, or with their new couples. That's good things that paparazzi good.
But I also learned that paparazzi don't only take pictures, they go to celebs awards (MTV awards, BET awards and like movie awards) and talk to some celebs about things. Things on like info on there life or on celebs new songs or what they are looking forward to see at the awards. Or when they want to talk to celebs and its not at an award show they start to chase the celebs and try to force the celebs to answer the paparazzi questions. Paparazzi can sometimes get good answers from the paparazzi and put it in a magazine. But sometimes paparazzi seems to get mad because they probably cant get that kind of answers they want from the celebs.
When I see paparazzi on T.V. chasing celebs, I see that celebs push the paparazzi out their way or celebs try to cover up which hardly works.Like for example, Miley Cyrus first kiss picture. I guess someone [another paparazzi] has that picture and wants $150,000,000 for that picture.Its really stupid that paparazzi really hunt for pictures they really want. That is really ridiculous! Paparazzi are way too much.But at the same time they are doing their job. I understand being a paparazzi could be a good job because you get paid plenty of money but on the other side probably being a paparazzi can be a difficult thing because they cant get exactly what they want.
As I try and look for some more answers for this certain question (Do paparazzi have a boss or are they their own boss?) . I searched everywhere on the Internet to find what I want but I really didn't find any answers. But in my opinion, I think that they probably have a boss because who would pay they? Do they go to other paparazzi and sell their celeb pictures to them or IDK! Its hard to look for something certain online and you cant get the right answer.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Final Thoughts On Strained Parent/Child Relationships
As my research comes to an end, I cant help but be amazed about all the information I have gathered and learned. By observing three different families, I have found many similarities, but yet many differences between each. Weather it's an issue with patience, the surrounding environment, or just a conflict of interest, all parents and children fight. But I honestly believe it's wrong to hit a child because you have no patience with them. If that's the case, maybe you shouldn't have had any kids in the first place. But maybe it's because of your surrounding environment. If it is, then try and get out of that environment. You can only better yourself and your relationship with your parents. Where is the harm in that?! If it's a conflict of interest, try solving the problem by talking to one another one on one. If that doesn't work, try going to a counselor or something to make the relationship better.
I have also learned that a brain area, called the amygdala, is known to be linked to the conflicts in teens. A research done at the University of Melbourne's Orygen Research Center in Australia reports that the areas of the brain may have a special link when it comes to teens who regularly fight with their parents. After participating in a problem-solving task that was designed to create conflict, 137 teens underwent a MRI brain scan to measure the the size of their amygdala. They found that the larger the amygdala, the more likely the kids were to fight with their parents. After the study, they found that children whose amygdala were larger were more likely to spend a longer amount of time being aggressive or angry with their parents during an interaction, so there was a relation to the size of the amygdala and how angry or aggressive the child was during the interaction.
Getting a teenager (and expecting mother) opinion really helped a lot too. My friend Gloria, who is turning 19 in August, and expecting her first child that same month, has given me her insight on my topic. She isn't like a lot of people out in the world now-a-days. She is expecting to do good for her baby, and give her a good life, and try to discipline her the best she can without hitting her when she gets older. She believes one-on-one talking would help, but if it doesn't, she would advise people to go to counseling to try and make the relationship better. She, just as some people believe both parties are at fault. Some kids try to become distant from their parents because they just want to do their own thing, etc. But at the same time, parents can strain the relationship by neglecting their child, and abuse the child in any way, shape, or form, etc.
I believe I have just reached the beginning of my research. I believe there is more information out there that I could really use in the future, so many more facts, so many more opinions, so much more news. I will continue my research only for the simple fact that I believe I have NOT completely answered my essential question!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Interview With A Child About Parent/Child Conflicts
I have interviewed Gloria Gonzalez about conflicts between parents and their children. This is what she had to say...
Me:" Do you know a parent or parents who has a strained relationship with their child(ren)?"
Gloria: "Yes I do."
Me: "How did the relationship get strained in the first place?"
Gloria: "My cousin is 10 and has ADHD, and because they're hyper and have a mind of their own, my aunt obviously doesn't have any patience with him so she gets stressed because of it and ends up getting mad and starts hitting him."
Me: "Do you think one-on-one communication would help the situation?"
Gloria: "I think it depends because they fight a lot. But it could work."
Me: "Do you think therapy would be a better choice?"
Gloria: "Yes. This way they could get their ideas out in a more healthy way in a more non-hostile environment."
Me: "What do children do to strain the relationship?"
Gloria: "I believe when children get older, they become more distant from their parents and choose not to get along with them, they backtalk, and don't talk to their parents about things that probably need to be talked about."
Me: "What do parents do to strain the relationship?"
Gloria: "Some parents neglect their children, they physically, emotionally and verbally abuse their children, they could spoil their children when they're younger and just automatically stop, or they could be too strict."
Me: "How should parents discipline their children in order to have a safe, healthy, loving relationship with their children?!"
Gloria: "Time-out when they're little, talking, grounding as they get older. But absolutely NO HITTING whatsoever."
Me: "Once you have a good relationship with your parents (or children) how can you maintain it?"
Gloria: "Conversations on a regular basis, family dinners, family time (bonding), apologizing for everything you put them through."
Me:" Do you know a parent or parents who has a strained relationship with their child(ren)?"
Gloria: "Yes I do."
Me: "How did the relationship get strained in the first place?"
Gloria: "My cousin is 10 and has ADHD, and because they're hyper and have a mind of their own, my aunt obviously doesn't have any patience with him so she gets stressed because of it and ends up getting mad and starts hitting him."
Me: "Do you think one-on-one communication would help the situation?"
Gloria: "I think it depends because they fight a lot. But it could work."
Me: "Do you think therapy would be a better choice?"
Gloria: "Yes. This way they could get their ideas out in a more healthy way in a more non-hostile environment."
Me: "What do children do to strain the relationship?"
Gloria: "I believe when children get older, they become more distant from their parents and choose not to get along with them, they backtalk, and don't talk to their parents about things that probably need to be talked about."
Me: "What do parents do to strain the relationship?"
Gloria: "Some parents neglect their children, they physically, emotionally and verbally abuse their children, they could spoil their children when they're younger and just automatically stop, or they could be too strict."
Me: "How should parents discipline their children in order to have a safe, healthy, loving relationship with their children?!"
Gloria: "Time-out when they're little, talking, grounding as they get older. But absolutely NO HITTING whatsoever."
Me: "Once you have a good relationship with your parents (or children) how can you maintain it?"
Gloria: "Conversations on a regular basis, family dinners, family time (bonding), apologizing for everything you put them through."
my final thoughts.....
so my journey on teen pregnancy is finally over but i just want to share a couple more things. my essential question in the beginning was what can be done about teen pregnancy? well my answer to that is that most teenage girls are more concerned with finding love and not paying attention to whats really important and what i think is important is talking i think thats the best thing you could do.
some important things that i have learned are the fact that most girls get pregnant and the guy either leaves or the girl has the baby and the parents make her give it away. I learned that some girls actually try and commit suicide because they dont know what to do and their all alone and under alot of stress.
My search was relly successful because i found alot of neat websites and they had alot of good information and alot of interesting facts that i didnt know. Im glad i picked this topic beacaue if i hadent i wouldnt have found out all the interesting stuff that i did. teen pregnacy is a reallly good topic to talk about because it might help someone who is going through it.
What i plan to do with all this information that i found is use it and to answer questions that i myself may have in the future or other people. I dont know everything about teen pregnancy but i do know some things and i would love to share. Teen pregnancy is a topic thats always gunna be around and the right thing to do is to just help people in need and thats what i plan to do with the information. I plan to help and everyone else should to.
Most teenage girls are looking for help when they are pregnant.some may have families who would support her and their may be some girls that dont have families who would support her. Thats why their are those places where girls can go for help. so they need us.
some important things that i have learned are the fact that most girls get pregnant and the guy either leaves or the girl has the baby and the parents make her give it away. I learned that some girls actually try and commit suicide because they dont know what to do and their all alone and under alot of stress.
My search was relly successful because i found alot of neat websites and they had alot of good information and alot of interesting facts that i didnt know. Im glad i picked this topic beacaue if i hadent i wouldnt have found out all the interesting stuff that i did. teen pregnacy is a reallly good topic to talk about because it might help someone who is going through it.
What i plan to do with all this information that i found is use it and to answer questions that i myself may have in the future or other people. I dont know everything about teen pregnancy but i do know some things and i would love to share. Teen pregnancy is a topic thats always gunna be around and the right thing to do is to just help people in need and thats what i plan to do with the information. I plan to help and everyone else should to.
Most teenage girls are looking for help when they are pregnant.some may have families who would support her and their may be some girls that dont have families who would support her. Thats why their are those places where girls can go for help. so they need us.
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
my final thoughts on "straight guys being more gay"
So.. I've learned a lot while doing my research on straight guys being more gay. In other words, did you ever notice how good of a connection a straight girl, and a gay guy have? Well a lot of girls are hoping to have that same connection with a straight guy as well. So to be more gay, I think means to be more open, maybe more sensitive, and more caring towards a friendship with a member of the opposite sex. Mainly straight guys towards girls, because guys don't seem to have the same problem that girls do with this situation.
I think my topic was very missunderstood by a couple of people. But the people who understood where I was coming from made a lot of good points, and agreed with my point of view. Just because a straight guy shows his sensitivity to a girl, doesn't mean that he's doing it for all the wrong reasons. Sometimes, yeah they do. But if a guy really cares about a girl, then he isn't doing it for all the wrong reasons.
A lot of people actually got where I was coming from though, I was a little nervous to do this topic at first because I thought I was going to get a lot of weird reactions from a lot of people. But the more I talked about it with people the more I realized that a lot of people feel that straight guys could be "more gay". The way it's worded throws people off... but when they actually understand the meaning of the question, they weren't so awkward about it. I talked to a lot of guys, who said that when it comes to to their friendship with their girl friends, not their guy friends, that yeah maybe they could be "more gay". Shaun commented one of my posts, and I liked how he put it. He said that maybe we don't want guys to be more gay, but just sort of "gayish". And I thought that was maybe a better way to put it.
I realized that most guys, think they always have to be tough, and that they can't show their sensitivity, because it would make them look "soft", or whatever you want to call it. But then again, there are also some guys that are already that way, and they don't care what people say. Those are the guys that are really good friends.
I don't think my question will ever be 100% answered, because it does go beyond the sensitivity to something, I'm not really sure what that is though. I just know that if guys could see things through a girls eyes, they would see how much girls would value their friendship if they would just try harder. They see how girls act with gay guys, and how they connect with them, and how much fun they have with them, and sure there are some that can act that way, without feeling gay, but the ones who can't should try. I've said before, that I don't have this problem, because I tend not to really get along with a lot of girls anyways, so I have a lot of guy friends, some who are gay, some who can act "gayish", and some that aren't "gayish" at all. And I connect with each of them the same way, some more than others, but the gay ones, and the ones who can act "gayish", are much easier for me to talk to about more personal things, like the things that bother me. The straiht ones, and the ones that don't act "gayish", are a little harder to try to talk about the personal things with.
I think my topic was very missunderstood by a couple of people. But the people who understood where I was coming from made a lot of good points, and agreed with my point of view. Just because a straight guy shows his sensitivity to a girl, doesn't mean that he's doing it for all the wrong reasons. Sometimes, yeah they do. But if a guy really cares about a girl, then he isn't doing it for all the wrong reasons.
A lot of people actually got where I was coming from though, I was a little nervous to do this topic at first because I thought I was going to get a lot of weird reactions from a lot of people. But the more I talked about it with people the more I realized that a lot of people feel that straight guys could be "more gay". The way it's worded throws people off... but when they actually understand the meaning of the question, they weren't so awkward about it. I talked to a lot of guys, who said that when it comes to to their friendship with their girl friends, not their guy friends, that yeah maybe they could be "more gay". Shaun commented one of my posts, and I liked how he put it. He said that maybe we don't want guys to be more gay, but just sort of "gayish". And I thought that was maybe a better way to put it.
I realized that most guys, think they always have to be tough, and that they can't show their sensitivity, because it would make them look "soft", or whatever you want to call it. But then again, there are also some guys that are already that way, and they don't care what people say. Those are the guys that are really good friends.
I don't think my question will ever be 100% answered, because it does go beyond the sensitivity to something, I'm not really sure what that is though. I just know that if guys could see things through a girls eyes, they would see how much girls would value their friendship if they would just try harder. They see how girls act with gay guys, and how they connect with them, and how much fun they have with them, and sure there are some that can act that way, without feeling gay, but the ones who can't should try. I've said before, that I don't have this problem, because I tend not to really get along with a lot of girls anyways, so I have a lot of guy friends, some who are gay, some who can act "gayish", and some that aren't "gayish" at all. And I connect with each of them the same way, some more than others, but the gay ones, and the ones who can act "gayish", are much easier for me to talk to about more personal things, like the things that bother me. The straiht ones, and the ones that don't act "gayish", are a little harder to try to talk about the personal things with.
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