Monday, April 28, 2008

Research Of The Life Of Paparazzi & Celebs [3rd post]

Paparazzi go crazy to take a exciting picture of a celeb. I went on Google and I found an interesting site that talks about Princess Diana fatal crash that people say that paparazzi killed her or made that crash happened. This article sites that judge clearing pursuing photographers [[paparazzi]] some believed contributed to this wreck (Stephan). That's what I mean when I say paparazzi are crazy. They made that happened because they try to go really deep in her business. I wonder if paparazzi are the cause of some celebs death. Paparazzi need to calm down a little on their job.
I ask some people do paparazzi go way to far? I interview some people and out of the majority of them at least 60% said yes they go way to far on things. Most of them think they should call paparazzi murders and that the press is half the reason that stars turn to drugs and alcohol, it is probably the only way to escape the constant hounding. Paparazzi are dreadful!! They are some sneaky photographers. Paparazzi should have a limit before they become stalkers.For example like they should have a limit on how much pictures they take from each celeb or like they shouldn't get pictures on like really dirty stuff on celebs. My next thing I'm going to research on like are there any kind of movies out or been out that deal with paparazzi?.



Humi, Peter. "Judge clears photographers implicated in Diana crash." CNN September 3, 1999 20 May 2008 .

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

1st research post

I've done some research on my topic, I asked girls & guys both how they feel about how girls tend to feel more comfortable, get along better & have more fun with gay guys than they do with straight guys. I honestly don't have the same problem that most girls do with guys because I get along with straight guys better than I do with girls anyways, because a lot of girls are just full of drama, & all they do is talk about other girls, because their jealous, or they just want to judge them for no reason. & that causes problems, that I don't want or need. But even though I can get along with straight guys & communicate with them well, I still love gay guys. A lot. I'm not saying that girls want to date a guy that acts "more gay", but in ways they do want them to be more sensitive towards them, because I do know of a lot of girls who have problems understand straight guys, & feel like most straight guys have a problem understanding them, or that the straight guys don't even want to try to understand them. I've asked a few straight guys their opinions on how they feel about being "more gay" or trying to be able to understand girls better, & girls understanding them better, & I also asked some girls if they would feel more comfortable around the straight guys or like hanging out with them more if they were more like gay guys, & all of the girls said yes, & the majority of the guys even said that they'd be willing to be "more gay".

2nd post

I am researching the topic teen pregnancy and ive learned that so many teenage girls are becoming pregnant at such a young age. I think that teenagers should be using some type of birth control to prevent pregnancy. or they should wait till marrage. lots of teenage girls are ending up pregnant and i think they should be more responsible and think about all the consequences and what might happen. I Think that the girl and the boy should talk before doing anything. That could really make a difference.

My Research On Paparazzi And Celebs [2nd Post]

I've done some research on my topic on paparazzi and celebs and I learned more and more about them. I never knew how much they make or who are they. I went on yahoo answers to see how much people would agree or disagree on should paparazzi leave celebs alone ? And I found out that most of the people on yahoo answers say that why should they leave the celebs alone because all that money the paparazzi make wont they get in trouble. But some of the people on yahoo answers say that they should leave them alone in some ways. They shouldn't be way to nosy on their personal lives. Then I researched on how much paparazzi get paid. I never knew they made so much money on just one picture on a celeb. They can earn $10,000-$15,000 for a shot of a celeb. No wonder they go inside celebs business to find dirt about them. But in a way should paparazzi do that? Why cant paparazzi go to regular people and get inside their business. I think I wouldn't like my personal business out there. I asked some people would they like to have paparazzi taking pictures of them or getting bad news about them and put it out there to the world ? Most People say they would get violent with the paparazzi and a couple of people would like to get there business out there to the world so they could get more and more famous. But sometimes in my opinion, paparazzi should leave a couple of things alone on the celebs.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Observations of Strained Relationships

One day, I decided to go to my sisters house to study the actions between her and my niece. My sister has absolutely no patience for my niece any my niece knows it. Every time my sister asks my niece to do something, she talks back, whines and cries, throws a temper tantrum or just ignores her completely. My sister gets mad and starts to scream and yell at her, sometimes taking it too far by hitting her. What I have noticed is teen mothers (or women who were mothers when they were a teen) really dint have much patience for the child(ren). Maybe they could either learn patience or they could go for help (i.e. being a family member, a friend or a therapist.).

I was also talking to my boyfriend the other day about his "home life." I got a little insight about why he has a strained relationship with his parents. When he was growing up, he was in and out of trouble in school and in his neighborhood because of his life at home. His parents split and his mother married some other man and had his little sister, then got divorced and got back together with his father. In between all that commotion going on in his life, I guess it got so bad he couldn't take it anymore and started staying out of the house for a couple weeks at a time and eventually dropped out of school at the age of 16. Now 18, he is the one who is pretty much holding his family together. His father works long hours everyday, his mother finds things for herself to do, his little brother, 15, doesn't even go to school anymore because he thinks he has better things to do, and his little sister, 6, goes to school but is too young to understand the current situation. My boyfriend was forced to grow up fast and without any help. He takes care of his sister more than anybody in his house. He gets her up, fed, dressed and out for the bus in the morning and gets her off the bus in the afternoon. In a way, I believe somewhere in the future he will be thankful that he grew up and matured faster, but right now, his sanity is at stake.

As for me, I sat down and had a heart-to-heart talk with my mother. We talked about how our relationship got to the point it was at, about the little things that bother us, and how we can improve our relationship. We realized that me being in the house a lot is what is getting me so aggravated and tense, because if I have a bad day or something, I tend to keep it inside of me and let it eat me up inside and just snap at any given time. So we are trying to do our parts to change and improve our relationship.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

WHAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT TEEN PREGNANCY?

The topic that i choose was teen pregnancy and the reason I chose this topic was because I'm curious to know why so many teenage girls aren't using birth control and getting pregnant. I know that some girls feel pressured into saying yes and they think that they could fit in better if they were doing what everybody else was doing. Some girls feel pressured by their boyfriends because they don't want their boyfriends to go find somebody else that will do it. I think that something should be done about the fact that girls are getting pregnant at such young ages. My opinion is that they should do it because they want to, and to be safe about it, but I think that people should be waiting until their older and ready to do it. What can be done about teen pregnancy? Why are so many getting pregnant at such a young age? Why are so many teenage girls not on birth control?

Friday, April 11, 2008

HOW DO YOU MAKE STRAIGHT GUYS MORE GAY?

From experience, I've realized, that girls get along with gay guys so much better than they do with straight guys. For example, I like to hang out with gay guys a lot because they are a lot more fun to be around than the straight guys a lot of the time. They're a lot easier to talk to, because they connect with you on a higher level than most straight guys do. A lot of the time, straight guys don't really care what we have to say, because they don't want to hear our issues, but yet we have to sit there and listen to theirs. You can also talk to gay guys, about straight guys because they actually can relate to that too when the straight guy can't.

I'm not saying that I'd rather date a gay guy, or trying to say that I want straight guys to be gay, I'm just saying that they should learn to deal with us like we deal with them. They should try being a little more sensitive, and try to understand us, the way we try to understand them. I just think that straight guys should share their feelings more, instead of hiding them, maybe then us females could feel more comfortable talking to them about serious issues. How do you make straight guys more gay? What is it about the gay men that girls get so drawn to?

Paparazzi And Celebs: Before The Search

-Why are celebs getting attack by paparazzi when they do something like drugs or getting pregnant at a young age?


When I first notice that celebs were getting attack by paparazzi, it was kind of annoying me. I notice these things on television and also on websites. Its kind of personal that all the information that the paparazzi get on tape. I would hate that all my business would get known all over the world. But if life was kind of different, like we non-celebs would not like stuff like that. That's my opinion. I think us people would get violent with the paparazzi unlike the celebs which they just ignore them like their not there. Why can they have normal like without people knowing there personal life?

Foundation Questions: 1] Why don't regular people (non-celebs) get attack by paparazzi when something bad happens

2] Do celebs hate when they get expose about there personal life?

3] If life was to be different, like paparazzi are going after non-celebs, would we (non-celebs) like it? Would we be violent to the paparazzi?

4] What are some impacts on the celebs and paparazzi?

What Steps Can We Take To Improve A Strained Relationship Between Parents And Their Children: Before The Search

Honestly, I became interested in this topic because I pretty much live through it every day, whether it's in my life or some body else's life that I care about. In my situation, I get into arguments with my mother almost everyday over little, stupid things that end up getting blown out of proportion, my sister has no patience with my niece so she yells and screams at her everyday, and my boyfriend pretty much has no healthy relationship with his parents at all. He grew up in hostile environment, moving from house to house, neighborhood to neighborhood. Through all that time, he started to develop habits of his environment, causing a strain on his relationship with his parents. Now, I don't know if he could fix his relationship with his parents of if its lost forever..

I really don't know much about this topic. If I did, I think I'd have a better relationship with my mother instead of the grief and aggravation between her and me right now.

In order to answer my essential question, I think I would have to find the answer to the following questions:
  1. How did the relationship get strainned in the first place?!
  2. Do you think one-on-one communication would help the situation?!
  3. Do you think therapy would be a better choice?!
  4. Why do most parents try to be friends instead of parents?!
  5. What do children do to strain the relationship?!
  6. What do parents do to strain the relationship?!
  7. How should parents discipline their children in order to have a safe, healthy, loving relationship with their children?!
  8. Once you have a good relationship with your parents (or children) how can you maintain it?!