Tuesday, April 22, 2008
1st research post
I've done some research on my topic, I asked girls & guys both how they feel about how girls tend to feel more comfortable, get along better & have more fun with gay guys than they do with straight guys. I honestly don't have the same problem that most girls do with guys because I get along with straight guys better than I do with girls anyways, because a lot of girls are just full of drama, & all they do is talk about other girls, because their jealous, or they just want to judge them for no reason. & that causes problems, that I don't want or need. But even though I can get along with straight guys & communicate with them well, I still love gay guys. A lot. I'm not saying that girls want to date a guy that acts "more gay", but in ways they do want them to be more sensitive towards them, because I do know of a lot of girls who have problems understand straight guys, & feel like most straight guys have a problem understanding them, or that the straight guys don't even want to try to understand them. I've asked a few straight guys their opinions on how they feel about being "more gay" or trying to be able to understand girls better, & girls understanding them better, & I also asked some girls if they would feel more comfortable around the straight guys or like hanging out with them more if they were more like gay guys, & all of the girls said yes, & the majority of the guys even said that they'd be willing to be "more gay".
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I don't have a problem with gays i feel that they should recieve as much respect as any strait person does. I must say though sometimes i feel alittle nervous if im around a few of them...
I dont have a problem with gay guys because i have family members and friends that are gay and they are like girls but a little bit different. I think that some guys should act a little "girlish". But at the same time it would feel wierd that your guy friends have a girl side of them and that would be wierd to me.
Reading this post was a very interesting experiance. It reqiures a certian type of guy to be more gay... Like a cross dresser, or a Tina diva like in that movie, Miss Congeniality! I myself am not gay, in fact Im far from, however I can assure you that sensitivity is a quality of a person, and they either have it, or they dont. I am a sensitive type towards girls only.
What you have to understand is guys don't like to show their sensitivity! Its a guy thing. They feel as though if they show sensitivity, it makes them weaker as a man. And theres no changing it no matter what you try to do. And the straight guys who do show sensitivity are doing so for all the WRONG reasons, but you'll learn that eventually!
Not all straight guys who are sensative show it for the wrong reasons. They show it because they actually care about you. And as for the straight guys acting more "gayish" I think it would make a big difference on how girls view guys as.
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