Honestly, I became interested in this topic because I pretty much live through it every day, whether it's in my life or some body else's life that I care about. In my situation, I get into arguments with my mother almost everyday over little, stupid things that end up getting blown out of proportion, my sister has no patience with my niece so she yells and screams at her everyday, and my boyfriend pretty much has no healthy relationship with his parents at all. He grew up in hostile environment, moving from house to house, neighborhood to neighborhood. Through all that time, he started to develop habits of his environment, causing a strain on his relationship with his parents. Now, I don't know if he could fix his relationship with his parents of if its lost forever..
I really don't know much about this topic. If I did, I think I'd have a better relationship with my mother instead of the grief and aggravation between her and me right now.
In order to answer my essential question, I think I would have to find the answer to the following questions:
I really don't know much about this topic. If I did, I think I'd have a better relationship with my mother instead of the grief and aggravation between her and me right now.
In order to answer my essential question, I think I would have to find the answer to the following questions:
- How did the relationship get strainned in the first place?!
- Do you think one-on-one communication would help the situation?!
- Do you think therapy would be a better choice?!
- Why do most parents try to be friends instead of parents?!
- What do children do to strain the relationship?!
- What do parents do to strain the relationship?!
- How should parents discipline their children in order to have a safe, healthy, loving relationship with their children?!
- Once you have a good relationship with your parents (or children) how can you maintain it?!
2 comments:
This is a great topic and all of the questions listed are those that should be and need to be answered.
Many children now-a-days have issues with their parents. Sometimes its because the parent doesnt know how to be strict enough and some are too strict. Their should be a balance so that both parents and children can communicate without wanting to hurt eachother. Maybe someone will find a solution.
I like this topic because I go through it all the time with my family. Well I dont deal with it but my aunts deal with it with their kids. My aunts are not strict with her children. I think if parents start being strict with their children then their children will give respect to their parents.
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